Jill is new to the adoption center today. I see her through the glass door of her den, and my heart immediately drops. She is facing the back wall, and even from where I stand, I can see her trembling.
I go inside and sit down against the wall opposite her. She glances at me and then puts her gaze on the wall again, her trembling growing more noticeable.
I start to talk to her, but make no move to touch her. For several minutes, she will not look at me. I slide her bowl of food closer, but she is not interested in it.
As I continue to talk, she starts to glance at me every little bit, and I see that her shaking has lessened. I reach out and rub her head, and she doesn’t seem to mind.
Jill looks like one parent might have been a Black Lab and the other a Bassett Hound. She is ten years old and black with a greying face. She is long with short legs, and it is clear that she belonged to someone who believed that food is love.
A while later, I get up to leave the den with tears in my eyes. I tell her I’ll see her soon and walk to the door. But before I can open it, Jill gets up and trots to me, putting her full weight against my leg. I slide down the wall and sit next to her. I am crying full out now. I know what kind of courage it must have taken for her to do this. She curls up beside me, and I sit rubbing her in silence.
I had heard about Jill a few days earlier. Her person had undergone a severe stroke, and Jill ended up at our county’s local pound. I cannot even begin to imagine her there. But what happened to Jill happens far too often.
I think about what it would be like to be Jill these past couple of weeks. She has lost the person who clearly loved her. Under the decision making of someone who did not feel that way about her, she was put into a vehicle and driven to the county shelter where her chances of being adopted were hit or miss at best.
And now, here she is in a place where she will be cared for and a new home will be sought for her. But we have no way of telling her that, and so she will feel fear until she begins to see that the people here are kind and want the best for her.
I think about my own dogs and how they mean everything to me. We like to believe that if something happens to us, family members will care for our beloved dog or cat just as we would. Sometimes, this is the case. Very often, it is not.
For Jill, it is not.
Fortunately, Jill is only at the adoption center for a couple of days before a wonderful foster comes to pick her up. In this home, Jill will be cared for with love and tenderness. And in time, we can hope her heart will begin to heal.
As for me, I think I will take another look at the provisions my husband and I have made for our dogs. If something happens to both of us, I know my children will be loved and taken care of. I need to know that the same will be true for my dogs. Because the reality of this world is that our beloved pets are only as safe as our love for them. What we would do for them, someone else likely wouldn’t. Even a family member.
The safety and well-being of these dogs that I love so much is not something I want to leave to fate. As hard as it is to think about, preparation equals love.
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Inglath Cooper
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Someone called me this the other day in the context of my love for animals. It’s a phrase I’ve heard all my life, and one I haven’t generally taken to be a compliment.
Not that many years ago, I believe I would have taken it to mean something wasn’t exactly right with me. But this time, I thought about what had been said, and I looked up the phrase and its exact definition.
“Generally used to describe one as being too soft-hearted.”
The word that jumps out at me in this definition is too. I remember being called soft-hearted as a little girl. I cried for every dog I saw left on the side of the road. I cried for the pigs on my grandpa’s farm who were slaughtered at Thanksgiving. I cried for the horse standing in a neighbor’s pasture with icicles hanging from his whiskers and no hay in sight. Their suffering made me feel incredible sadness.
Is it possible for a human being to be too soft-hearted? If we are willing to accept that this world comes with a good deal of suffering, much of which is brought about by human choices, then maybe the answer is yes. Feeling for another’s pain is painful. It hurts.
But I would rather feel this hurt than not care. I would rather my heart bleed love and compassion than indifference.
Bleeding heart? I’m okay with that. Really okay with that.
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Inglath Cooper
I love books! From my earliest memories, I loved being read to and then reading practically every book in my elementary school library. There’s something about taking a little trip into a wonderful story that is its own unique pleasure. Over the years, my favorite authors have provided me with glimpses into worlds I would never have known had I not picked up their books. From Beverley Cleary to Lavyrle Spencer to Jodi Piccoult to Anita Shreve and so many others, I am grateful they chose to become storytellers. A great story has the power to move, change and shape its readers. To me, that’s an honorable calling and a task I aspire to.
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We let our Nate go today.
We’re not sure how old he was, just that he’s been with us some seven or eight years.
Nate came into our lives when a friend of mine who had been going to the Franklin County Animal Shelter to take pictures of the dogs and cats there, told us about a big, black dog who had been brought in by animal control. He had been hit by a car, apparently, and had injuries that went untreated during his entire hold time.
On his release date, we went to pull him from the shelter through the Franklin County Humane Society. But on this morning, Nate had reached the end of his ability to go on in the pain he must have been in, and he would not get up. Volunteers carried him to the car.
We took him to the Rocky Mount Pet Clinic where Dr. Eric Lorens found that Nate’s left front leg was broken in several places. Dr. Lorens determined that Nate’s injury had gone so long without treatment that there was little hope of saving his leg. Not only was he in pain, he was malnourished. His teeth were worn and broken in places, often seen, we were told, in dogs who are fed on the ground for most of their lives.
We did opt to remove Nate’s leg, and as it was healing, he had to learn to walk again. Dr. Lorens and his wonderful staff cared for Nate, not like a dog from the county shelter that no one wanted, but with tenderness and kindness.
And Nate surpassed everyone’s expectations for recovery. He had his will to live back, and he flourished, every rub, every treat, every hug accepted with a grateful wag of his tail.
I brought him to our house to foster, and it didn’t take long to realize that he was meant to be with us. He was an absolute joy to watch with my young daughters. They loved on him and hugged on him, and he soaked it in like sunshine he had been long deprived of.
Nate loved everyone, and everyone loved him. He became a model for our business advertising, and was featured in national magazines, making the Uttermost Company known for its love of dogs and support of rescue. He prompted my determination to somehow find a way to make a difference for other dogs in our county like him. Nate is the reason my husband and I became involved in the building of the Franklin County Humane Society Adoption Center.
Less than a year ago, Nate developed lymphoma. We opted for treatment because he was otherwise so healthy. He improved, his lymph nodes returned to normal, and he had some good months of being his old self again. Not too long ago, the cancer returned. We tried a second, less powerful medication that appeared to help for a bit. He had good days and bad days.
I’ve been waiting for Nate to let me know when he’d had enough. When the battle was too hard to keep fighting. He let me know this morning. He didn’t want to get up or eat. My daughter and I helped him outside, but he was too weak to stand and lay down on the ground.
The two of us carried him back inside and put him on his favorite red pillow. Harley, his best buddy, came to sit beside him. During the many vet visits throughout Nate’s illness, Harley has cried for Nate until he came back home. Mournful wails that I might not have believed had I not heard them time and again. There has been a special bond between these two that made me dread Nate’s loss even more. I sat with them both this morning and explained to Harley that Nate might be leaving us soon. But the truth is, I think Harley already knew.
This afternoon, my husband, four daughters and I were with Nate as he took his last breath. As much as it hurt, I’m so grateful for the time we had with him. Grateful, too, that his life did not end on a concrete kennel floor, never having known what it means to be truly loved.
Because he was. Truly. Loved.
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Inglath Cooper
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I just love this boy. Calvin came to the Franklin County Humane Society in Rocky Mount, Virginia with a chain and padlock around his neck, scars on his handsome body. He is so deserving of a kind, loving home because he’s a kind, loving dog. Please share his message.
Video of mama and son playing:
From being at risk of losing their lives in the Roanoke, Virginia regional pound, Champagne and Grimm, a nine-year old mother and one-year old son, play together here on the day after their rescue. From the moment I saw the faces of these two, sad and scared behind the cage door of their pound kennel, I couldn’t quit thinking about them and fearing what would happen to them.
Their rescue is just another example of what happens when caring people reach out and find help for pets who have been left at places where their fate is uncertain. I was drawn to these two from their pictures alone, but that didn’t compare to meeting them in person. They are such treasures, so full of joy today, able to leave the fear of just a day ago behind them.
Today, I am grateful for their safety. Thankful for their lives. For all the people who commit themselves to dog rescue. And so, so glad I got to spend time with them. Their happiness makes me happy.
Books by Inglath: A Gift of Grace, A Woman Like Annie, A Woman With Secrets, A Year And A Day, John Riley's Girl, The Lost Daughter of Pigeon Hollow, Truths and Roses, Unfinished Business